Everyone who is looking for a kink partner, whether you are dom or a sub, you have them all neatly listed in a subreddit called r/BDSMpersonals/. This is a platform where all the naughty people of Reddit can post their wants and needs, who they are trying to find, and what turns them on. You can basically do the same, or you can respond to some of the things you see here.I think that this place is rather self-explanatory, but there are some shits that you might be confused by. So, if you want me to explain the gist of what you can expect from r/BDSMpersonals/ you have definitely come to the right place. On the other hand, even if you do not fancy what this subreddit is all about, you can check out other subreddits instead, and there are tons.In fact, there are thousands of NSFW subreddits that you can check out, and well, I have reviewed a shit ton of them as well. As for those who are lazy to explore on their own, continue reading, and if you like to do the exploration alone, you already know the gist of what r/BDSMpersonals/ is all about, so you are more than welcome to check out everything else on your own. It is free, after all.Find your ideal kink partner.This subreddit basically serves as a place where people can search for their perfect partner. Of course, if you are going to post there, then you should be searching for a BDSM related love-like relationship, or whatever else the fuck you might be into. However, it needs to be of BDSM kind; otherwise, why the fuck would you even want to post anything in a subreddit called r/BDSMpersonals/?When you open r/BDSMpersonals/ for the first time, you will see that this subreddit is really not like the others. You have a lot of different posts and no actual content. I mention this because if you are here for the dirty content, you will be better off checking out a different kind of subreddit instead. As I said, I have personally reviewed a ton of other subreddits, so be my guest.This place is just for posts that resemble ads basically. You state what you are looking for, or who you are looking for, and the people who are interested will tell you. I mean, I think this all makes a lot of fucking sense if you ask me… as the subreddit works just like any other hookup website, just that the kink here is that it is all BDSM related.Different levels of BDSM.Let’s not forget that there are different levels of BDSM to take into consideration. Many people who are not aware or new to the fetish think that BDSM is just the hardcore slamming, slapping, and violence, but I mean… are you fucking stupid? You get the low-levels of BDSM, as well as the truly hardcore shit as well, and people here are free to ask for whatever the fuck they want, as long as they are looking for some sort of BDSM.So, let me make it easier for your ass to understand. One of the first shits I’ve seen was posted by a chubby girl who was looking for a dominant guy, but for online fun. She explained that the dominant and sub shit was the most fulfilling to her, and that is why she wanted to, you know… have some fun and start from an online relationship.The next post was from a dude who was looking for a dom in real life. He wanted a hardcore dominatrix to make him do all kinds of weird shit, which he was happy to list all after you opened his post. Oh yeah, this reminds me, you will mostly see the titles of the posts, and if you want to see all that it is about, you should actually click on the fucking post, duh!There were some rather specific things as well; some people were searching for a very specific partner who is open to certain BDSM play, while others were vague. So, I guess it is obvious that it all depends on what the fuck you are searching for as well. If you want a particular kind of play, then you can either scroll through and try to find somebody who fits the description, or you can just make your own post instead.Register.If you do want to be a part of what r/BDSMpersonals/ is all about, then you might want to register. I mean, you can explore everything r/BDSMpersonals/ has to offer; however, if you do not actually register, you cannot comment, like, or send them a message, so there is really no fucking point. The registration on Reddit is free, so why the fuck not?So, you can start by browsing through to see what others have posted. Who knows, you might find just what you are looking for. This is where I would have appreciated a lot more when it comes to search options, but oh well. At least you are given some filter search options on the side, such as who is looking for who… F4M, F4F, M4f, M4M, T4M, and so on. You get the gist.You will also get to see that on the side of there are rules that you should follow. Each subreddit is different, and they all have their own rules of posting and all that, which is important that you pay attention to. The same applies to r/BDSMpersonals/, but the rules tend to be relatively simple. If you do not follow the rules, you can be banned, so try not to be a fucking moron.Once you read all that shit, you can make your own post. If you are looking for something rather specific, why the fuck not make your own post, right? I mean, you are more than welcome to do that, or just scroll through. I imagine that those who are looking for something very certain should make their own post and scroll through. And if you are very open-minded, you will easily find a perfect partner.When you do find a post that speaks to you, you can contact the users through the comment section or send them a private message on Reddit. It’s rather great that you can send private messages, not only to the members of, but to every other subreddit as well. However, you have subreddits that are meant for chatting and those that are not. So, you might want to pay attention to that, since has a shit ton of subreddits, in general.Other user-features.Other than that, you can simply enjoy the usual user-privileges, and when I say this, I mean on whole Reddit, not just this subreddit. You can comment, like and dislike whatever you find, and you can post whatever the fuck you want anywhere on But as I have said, each subreddit has its own rules, so you need to follow that!You also have some minor shit, like being able to add a profile pick, follow different subreddits to get their updates and see other information about each subreddit. For example, you can see that r/BDSMpersonals/ was created in 2011, that it has over 115k members, and from what I have seen, the members tend to be pretty active, here and there.Conclusion.It is straightforward. Are you searching for a subreddit that allows you to meet different people with the same fetish? Well, if that is the case, then you might want to check out what r/BDSMpersonals/ has to offer. This subreddit is dedicated to a ton of people who are into BDSM plays and are looking for a partner in crime basically. You have a lot of different posts looking for something specific, and you can check them all out.When you find somebody on Reddit who suits your taste, you can send them a message. On the other hand, you can also post your own stuff on Reddit, and not only in r/BDSMpersonals/ but anywhere, as long as you follow the rules. So, if you are interested in finding your perfect BDSM partner, you should start by browsing through this section on, or check out different BDSM subreddits. Sooner or later, you will find a perfect subreddit that will make your dick hard or pussy wet.